My Co-workers Are Hooking Up at Conferences
I must have missed the memo

Insomnia has never been convenient. At 2:13 AM in a Las Vegas hotel, it became unexpectedly enlightening. Pacing the carpeted corridor of the 23rd floor, I crossed paths with my colleague Sarah exiting our boss David’s room. She wore yesterday’s conference attire, hair disheveled, heels in hand. Our eyes met briefly before she hurried toward …

I Spoke to My Boss Like a Starbucks Barista. The Results Were Disturbing.
How a simple tone shift exposed everything wrong with workplace hierarchy

My boss stood in my office doorway, arms crossed. ā€œCorinne, the client presentation needs to be completely redone by tomorrow morning.ā€ ā€œAbsolutely! I’d be happy to make those changes for you,ā€ I replied, my voice rising half an octave. ā€œIs there anything specific you’d like me to focus on?ā€ The words felt sticky-sweet in my …

I Met Every Deadline — and Burned My Life to the Ground
The cost of corporate loyalty was my health, my relationships, and my sanity

ā€œJust get through the day,ā€ I whispered, gripping the steering wheel. The first sign wasn’t the insomnia or the Sunday night dread. It was the morning I sat in my parked car outside the office, unable to open the door. Twenty minutes passed. My reflection in the rearview mirror showed dark circles under eyes that …

My Childhood Trauma Gets Me Great Performance Reviews
They call it leadership, I call it survival

My technical architecture diagrams mirror my childhood drawings — everything in its box, every connection mapped, no surprises allowed. In design reviews, I track micro-expressions like I once tracked my father’s moods. The senior developer’s slight hesitation becomes a red flag. The product manager’s tightened jaw signals incoming conflict. My colleagues praise my foresight. My …

This Is My Salary — and Why I Tell Women Everywhere
Smashing the salary taboo that keeps women underpaid

The first time I said my salary out loud, I felt like I had broken an unspoken rule — one that was never meant to protect me. The morning of the tech conference, I sat in my hotel room revising my slides about industry trends. My practiced talking points about cloud architecture felt hollow against …

The Smartest Woman in the Room Is Always Psychic
Stop calling my hard-won expertise ā€œwomen’s intuitionā€

ā€œAmazing women’s intuition at work here. I love how you just sense these things.ā€ My jaw clenches before I can stop it. I grip my presentation clicker tighter, forcing a polite smile. ā€œActually, it’s called predictive modeling.ā€ The words come out too sharp, or maybe just sharp enough. I click to the next slide, but …